I am pretty sure I start every birthday post with the word HOW?!
But seriously, how could time cheat me like this and continue to fly by so quickly?! I wish it would slow down a bit so I can savor the blissful now’s but I’m sure if it did in fact slow down, I’d be begging for the tomorrow’s too.
It literally feels like just yesterday when I was writing DEAR AÏCHATOU & GOLDEN 26 for my 26th birthday, yet here I am now talking about a few things my 26th year has taught me. I can’t possibly recall every single thing that has sunk in along the way, but here are a few highlights that you’ve probably seen throughout my blogging journey.
I CAN’T CONTROL EVERYTHING
If you know me well, you know that I am a control freak. I love planning everything to a T which can be a blessing and a curse. Finally accepting that I can’t control every single detail of my life has ironically taken away my worries and given me peace. Let’s just say I’ve compromised and became a bit more realistic but, my planner still stays!
IT’S OKAY TO LET PEOPLE GO
I can’t nor will be everyone’s cup of tea and sometimes it’s not a realization until the tea has been served. Letting people go can often be unimaginably painful but it’s a wonderful disguise of liberation. Not everyone is meant to stay for the entire journey, some are just here to teach a lesson and move on. Let. Them. Go.
CONTINUE TO PERSIST
Not going to lie, this one was a hard one. I’ve taken so many breaks from blogging this year because truthfully, I just wanted to give up. There’s been so many times when I threw my hands in the air and just said “forget it, I can’t do it anymore” but somehow I only meant it for the day because as soon as my frustration wore off, I was back to working hard. If there’s one thing I’m proud of, it’s my drive and determination to stick to the things I want the most. The end goal is wonderful but the persistence and journey is what has been molding me.
PUT YOUR 10,000 HOURS IN
I am an avid reader and plan to really discuss more literature here. I read a while back “The Defining Decade of Your Twenties” and one thing that stuck to me the most is the 10,000 Hour Rule. This simple principle holds that 10,000 of “deliberate practice” is what’s needed to become an expert in any field. I would always complain about not being good enough at a new hobby until I read this rule and even after putting my 10,000 hours in I choose not to give up because I may be a minute away from my break through.
GOD’S TIMING IS THE BEST TIME
Whatever you believe in, I firmly believe that the universe is aligning with everything you are destined to be! In addition to all of the above, I’ve come to a realization that I can either cry about the things I don’t have or truly appreciate what is in front of me. What’s meant to happen will happen, at the right time and moment because truthfully, half the blessings that has come my way were far greater than what I’ve asked for.
As mentioned before, these are the “little” experiences that have made life changing differences in this past year. Stay tuned for my next post to find out my 27th year's goals, because I am mean, who am I if I don't have a goal list for everything?! HAH!
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